“Notice
that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow
survives by bending with the wind.” – Bruce Lee
Do you ever feel that you are “stuck”
in a situation?
The only time you can ever be
stuck is when you hold on to things that no longer serve you. E.g. if you love
your job, you enjoy working but you if you hate your job, you feel that you are
stuck in your job.
We are never stuck. It is simply
an illusion. Life is constantly changing then how can we feel that anything is
stuck.
The only reason we feel stuck is
that even though life is moving we are refusing to move with it. We are too
afraid to let go. We hold on to what we have rather than embracing the change
life is bringing to us.
Life is too short to play by
rules. Take control of your own life. If you don’t like your job, it does mean
that you need to quit it right away but you can start looking for a new job.
Using law of attraction, you can visualize what would you like to have in your
current job or simply ask for a new job. It may not be very easy at first but
with time and being aligned with your desires you can manifest anything.
Nothing can ever be constant, everything
is always changing. The Multiverse is constantly expanding, earth keeps
rotating, grass keeps growing, our bodies change, our kids grow, our hair,
nails and even the smallest atoms in our cells are changing then why are you
holding on to the things?
Sometimes we refuse the changes
because they are uncomfortable but sometimes we refuse them simply because they
are new. So, even if something better is
happening, we hate it because we are not used to it.
When a corporation implements any
new computer system to automate manual process, employees hate the new system.
Not because it’s bad but because it’s new. Gradually they like it but the
initial reaction is almost always negative.
However, kids react differently
to life changes. They love new toys. Once we buy them something new they play
with it until newer toys arrive. Kids never say no to newer toys or games. Even
if they play with older ones, they will still embrace the new ones with
enthusiasm.
As kids, it is easier for us to
learn new things not because we are young but because our brains are in
constant learning mode. Everything from learning to walk to watching a new
cartoon show, we are constantly facing new things. Our brain has no option but
to keep up with all of it. As we grow older we are seeing the same things again
and again and our brain slows down. And then it feels so stuck.
Stress is nothing but our
reaction to the changes we face. Instead
of getting stressed over the things that we cannot control, we simply need to
let go of those things and move on.
Lastly, never stay stuck because
someone else is. If a friend is being too rigid to try new things, it is time
to find a new friend who would. It may sound unkind but energy around you
should stay flowing so that you can flow with life.